My Pastor Put Me In The Family Way And Says Its The Lord’s Doing!!

I don’t think that there’s any need to hide my identity any longer, because as we speak; the news is everywhere and my church members are already aware of this occurrence.  I live in the UK and also a member of the Redeemed Christian Church of God. I am a Nigerian girl, 24years old. I have lived in the UK for over five years, running into my 6th year already and as we all are accustomed to the old saying that “life is not always smooth and straight” I understand that life, most of the time is full of ‘zig and zag’ just like it’s characterized with ups and downs. But My story is not far from the regular after all. I have had my good times too, and I consider this time as my most trying moment of my life.
I send you this mail, not exactly because I am remorseful about my action of taking full control of a married Pastor, but because I have perceived something that is really not going to work for my favour, peradventure i proceed to keep this pregnancy against all odds. I don’t regret my action because I understand that pastors too are human beings, they have blood too flowing through their veins and also have the same feelings like the rest of us. Yes, He slept with me, got me pregnant; so what?


Before anyone deems it fit to judge me, i will give a little heads up on the background, so that it will give you an insight into how it all started. I understand that as human beings, we cannot play tricks with nature. I’m one of the Choristers in the church, and there is this magnet that pulls the pastor and I together. More  like a magnetic force.
It all started from the day he complained bitterly to me in the most pathetic way how the wife had starved him of sex for months all in the name of spirituality and how hardly ever satisfies him on bed. I actually wanted to satisfy him, as I’m such an emotional and considerate person. I am very sure God won’t judge me negatively because of my kind gesture. I only tried to satisfy a man who was dying of hunger, he was been starved and I had to leave spirituality behind to get him satisfied.
From then on, we had our fun in different hotels after every church meeting. I must always wait for the Pastor who will convey me to my house. After all, he is a pastor, and no one would suspect that any ‘dirty’ romance was going on between us.
He confessed that I had made him feel like a man, and I was just proud of myself. This is something every young lady should be proud of. I am not trying to patronize my action, but only being reasonable about some sensitive  sexual matters.
Yes, we did, and since then, I have been excommunicated from the church. In fact, the whole thing remained secret until he got me impregnated, and I confronted him for an abortion. To my dismay, he refuted my suggestion; he wanted me to keep the baby. I had moved against it. I had given him reasons why I shouldn’t keep the baby. I don’t want to jeopardize my dream of getting married at the age of 26 which is just less than a year. I told him that I must get rid of the baby. But he has vowed to sue me if I did.
He is happy that at least what he had waited for endlessly since he got married in 2000 has come to fruition as God has finally opened the doors through me because, he never had a child since he got married, and age is really not on his side. And from what he said i think he needs this baby like yesterday
This disagreement has put me in the public glare today as my close friends whom I divulged the situation to, had reported the matter to the church committee, and I have since been excommunicated. Everybody talks about me as if I have done something so strange that nobody has ever done before. My concern really is not about what people are saying but to get a little piece of your advice on whether I should keep the baby against my wish, or go for an abortion. I know what I want but I still need your advice in order to justify the action I’m about to take. In the next five days, I should be able to take a major decision. Thank you for publishing my story

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